Communicating with your Myanmar helper: the habits that make it work.
Communication is the part of hiring a domestic helper that no biodata can promise. Two households can hire candidates with similar experience and have very different first months, simply because one family worked out early how to be understood and the other assumed it would happen on its own.
Nothing here replaces meeting the candidate yourself. The interview is where you find out whether the two of you can talk about your actual household, and the habits below are the ones most employers find make the settling-in period smoother.
Test real understanding, not grammar
English ability among Myanmar helpers varies widely, from basic to conversational. A short, awkward interview is not proof that a candidate cannot work in your home, and a confident one is not proof that she will understand your daily instructions.
So do not score grammar. Ask about your real household: a four-year-old who refuses dinner, a school run that has to happen before eight, an elderly parent who needs help at bath time. Then ask her to describe the situation back to you in her own words. If the two of you can hold a practical conversation about meals, routines and children, that is usually far more useful than a fluent but vague discussion.
Put the routine in writing, in short sentences
Write your daily routine down as short, plain sentences: wake-up time, meal times, school timings, the cleaning priorities for each part of the day, laundry days and the rest-day arrangement. Add a simple weekly schedule for anything that does not happen daily.
Keep it somewhere your helper can see it. A written routine removes the need to memorise a long verbal explanation, and it gives her something to check rather than having to ask you the same question repeatedly. Update it when things change, and say so, rather than expecting her to notice.
Show the task once, then watch it done once
Demonstration works better than description for household work. Show how you want the kitchen cleaned, how rice is cooked in your house, or how your child's school bag is packed, then let her do it while you are nearby.
Correct in the moment rather than saving it up for weeks, and keep it specific. Asking someone to wipe the table before laying it is easier to act on than a general reminder to be careful. Where a task matters for safety, such as handling a hot stove or helping an elderly person move around, demonstrate it twice and check that it has been understood.
Make it easy to admit confusion
Many helpers are reluctant to say they did not understand, because it can feel like admitting a fault or questioning the employer. Say early and plainly that questions are welcome, and that you would rather be asked than find something done the wrong way.
Ask open questions rather than yes-or-no ones. What will you do after you send the children to school tells you more than do you understand. If an answer sounds vague, ask for an example instead of repeating the same instruction more loudly.
Keep a regular check-in rhythm
In the first month, a short conversation at the end of each week helps both sides. Ask what went well, what was unclear, and whether anything in the routine needs adjusting. Ten minutes is usually enough.
These check-ins get shorter as routines settle, but they are worth keeping in some form. A small misunderstanding is far easier to resolve in the first fortnight than after it has hardened into a habit on both sides.
Plan for a real language gap honestly
If your household needs someone to handle phone calls, take messages from school or read written instructions, say so before we shortlist, because that is a different requirement from basic spoken English.
If communication is limited but the candidate is otherwise right for your home, decide honestly whether your household can work with short written instructions, demonstration and patience. Some families can, and many do well. Others genuinely need a helper who communicates more independently, and it is better to establish that at the interview than after handover.
Preparing for the interview
Bring two or three situations from your own week to the video interview, and ask the candidate to talk you through how she would handle them. Our printable interview checklist gives you a structure to work from, and our FAQs cover the questions employers ask us most often.
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